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CHAPTER
IX
Personal Interviews—Or Jobs at First Sight
To anyone reading this
book, the repetition of success after
success may seem fabulous. But there
is one consideration that must not be overlooked.
These successes only came as a result of infinite
planning, of making mistakes and
profiting by them, and of a
careful analysis of what caused us
to succeed or what caused us to fail.
We got no's at the
start, but we did not keep on
taking no's time after time. Frequently during the
early days of our job
hunt, the two of us would come together
at a designated meeting place, both
with discouraging news. Sometimes the report was
that most disappointing of all—a job
that was almost but not quite won.
It only took a few of
these almosts to make us
stop and get down to
brass tacks. The thing we had to
discover was what would turn these almosts into all-the-ways.
And we analyzed, we discussed,… |
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we criticized ourselves and each other, we checked
and, finally, we felt that
we knew what would
make an interview click.
In the course of this
chapter, we are going to
use certain interviews that we had, to illustrate
outstanding salient
points. They are real interviews,
from real life, that resulted in real jobs.
Our findings are probably very unscientific.
We did not approach our problem from
the viewpoint of the trained psychologist or philosopher—neither
of which we are. We only know that
by the simple trial and error
method, by testing certain procedures
with employers, and being very much on
the alert as to what went over and
what did not, we discovered an interview technique that seems to work.
Now, we do not for a
minute want to give the
impression that we felt all we had to do was walk
into an office and take
the interview over. Far
from that! But we did know
that if we had our
points marshaled and well in hand, we could not
only hold up our end of
the interview but give
the best possible picture
of ourselves.
And that was a highly
significant discovery. For
in obtaining a job the interview is the last hurdle
that has to be taken—the
last victory that has to… |
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be gained. Beyond it,
shining and secure, stands
the job itself. The
letter in answer to the advertisement must be skillful and elicit a
favorable response,
the telephone call must have won an interested reaction, but unless the interview clinches
the job, all the
encouraging preliminaries have
been wasted.
Of course, if we had
been registered at employment agencies, and had suddenly been sent to talk to a
prospective employer, there would have been
no opportunity for the specialized kind of preparation
we are about to discuss. That point has been
taken up in the chapter
on the agencies.
We found that any
interview readily divided itself into two parts: preparation for the interview,
and the interview
itself. Neither part is more important
than the other. A splendid job opportunity can be as completely wasted through spotty interview preparation
as by a badly handled interview. And do not think for a moment that by
getting ready for an interview we mean merely
a hot bath, a finger wave and a new
lipstick, or a shoe shine, a
shave and a haircut. Those details
are important, of course, for
definitely you must look your best. But you must also be at your
best.
The actual preparation
generally requires both… |
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brainwork and footwork. It may
not be particularly
difficult in itself—but it does take some
thought. For the whole concentration is going
to be:
"I am the one person for the job.
What can I tell him to prove
it?" This is something more than
the mere ability to answer questions
about experience, former jobs, employers and references. It is
having a very clear estimate of the
extra qualifications that can
be applied to the job. For it is
not the fact that a person can fit
into the minimum requirements
that will land the job, but the special plus values that he
brings to it.
However, we can make
these points much more
vivid by actual illustration. One of our interviews
concerned the position
of millinery saleswoman.
The procedure would have
been the same if the
job had been in shoes, jewelry, men's furnishings,
lingerie, stationery,
bird cages or radios. This was
the picture: We saw the
advertisement in a newspaper, we
answered it and had now been notified to come in for an interview.
The letter reached us at
noon one day, telling
us to present ourselves
at ten fifteen the following
morning. With that
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Since there were only
five hours before the millinery shop would close for the day, the first
natural step
was to pay it a visit. Now, we were familiar
with that store, the
way people do know stores in
their home city. But
what a different viewpoint
we now had regarding
it as a possible employer of
us, instead of just a
place to look at hats or buy
a new one!
There were the
salespersons to consider—how
would we measure up
against them? What price
hats was the store
pushing, and were there any
unusual display
features? What class of customers were patronizing the store, and did
the place seem busy? Also in the back of our minds was the intention
to be on the alert for any individual excellences
that might make this store stand out from
others.
The visit was
illuminating and adequately accomplished
its aim. We next swung to our second
source of information: advertising in the daily
newspaper. We wanted to get an
impression of the store
through its advertising over a period of time. So instead of buying just
one day's paper, we went to
the newspaper office and looked back through
the files.
We discovered that the
establishment evidently… |
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was making a bid for
the smart business girl's
trade, for the young
married group and for the
college crowd. We
gleaned that impression from
the whole character of
the display. For one thing, the hats were snappy and youthful looking;
for another, they were modeled on
young faces; for a third, they were
medium priced.
Since we had gathered
that the store was after the young
trade, we wondered if it would not be
quite a feather in our caps to say that we had
excellent success with mothers and
daughters—a notoriously
difficult combination to sell—and also that we had a good line-up of
business girls who would buy
from us. This latter list, by the way,
was predicated on fact—or would be
before the next day's dawn. For here and now, it must be admitted that part
of the evening was spent in calling up business girl friends, and asking
them for some of their patronage in
the event that we took a
millinery job.
We then proceeded to
plan the salient points
that we were hoping to
make during the interview.
We had them clearly
in mind and we also had them
written down for a
last quick glance.
The partner who went
for the hat interview now
takes over:… |
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The place was a
medium-sized, popular-priced
shop in the heart of the
business district. A saleswoman left me standing in the front of the store
while she went to call
Mr. Aimer, the manager,
from whom I had received
my letter. Once more
I had a chance to have a glimpse of the novel hat
bar, with its long, wide
shelf and the mirror that
ran full length above it,
and of the other features
that had caught my eye the day before. I knew that if I
were seeing them for the first time now, keyed
up as I was by the approaching interview, they
would scarcely register.
After I identified myself to Mr. Aimer, he led
me to his little office
at the back of the shop.
On the way I remarked:
"What a novel idea your
hat bar is! I don't believe that I have ever seen
one before."
"Hat bar?" he repeated. "Well, that's quite a
name for it! We hadn't
called it anything, just considered it
as a smart, space-saving way to let the
customers try on hats."
"But I think every bit as smart as the hat bar,"
I continued, "is the way
you've displayed those
children's hats." I was
referring to a most engaging bouquet of colored felt hats just about thimble size,
but perfectly made, and displayed in the mid-… |
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die of the children's table on a tree of tiny hat
racks. They were as
cunning and intriguing as anything I
have ever seen.
Mr. Aimer said they had gotten lots of compliments
about those little hats, and that many mothers had wanted to buy them
for their children's
dolls. But they were only a display feature
and were not for sale.
The next moment he got right down to business. He picked up
my letter from his desk and said:
"Let's see—you worked for Gilmer in
Chicago, didn't you? How
long were you there?"
"Three years," I answered. "And I would still be there if
it had not been for an illness in my
family that brought me
east. My home is here
now.”
"Yes, I understand that, Miss Stacy," he said.
"But there's this thing
about fashion lines. A saleswoman
really ought to have a following."
"But that's just what I have, Mr. Aimer." And
I took out a notebook and
handed it to him. It
contained a list of
almost one hundred names, addresses and telephone numbers. "These are
people who have
promised to buy hats from me wherever
I locate in the city. Many of these people have
daughters, just the sort
of young group your hats… |
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especially appeal to.
You know, Mr. Aimer, I have
been following your advertising with a great deal
of interest."
"Yes," he answered. "We
think Miss Case does a good job there."
"I don't know whether this is the time to mention
it," I continued. "But I have had very good
success in selling women shopping together—even
with mothers and daughters, often as
not, I sell each one of them a hat."
Now Mr. Aimer gave his
first sign of approbation. "You are a
very enterprising sort, Miss Stacy," he said. "Personally, I am not at
all sure how far we'll get with this
list of yours, but I feel that you'll be able to build up a trade
all right."
Then I let him see how I
had been studying his
styles, his price range and his sales appeal. He
could tell that I would put everything I had
into pushing his business ahead.
That interview won the
job. And why not? With
all the preparation that went into it—all the effort to
stand out as possessing initiative, style sense,
sales ability, interest in the business, a desire to
see it grow. I did
not fall back on any such trite
remarks as I would work hard and do my best. Mr.
Aimer knew that from my
whole attack of the prob-… |
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lem. I drew for him
word pictures of how I actually
had worked hard, how I had done my best to
prepare for this job.
That type of preparation for other interviews
brought just as encouraging results.
We had a very
interesting interview in a field that
we had about decided was closed to us. It is
one of the largest industries open to
women, and employs them in great numbers. It is a glamorous
industry, too, and has proven prosperous even in
the depression. It is no less than
the business of beauty.
And why was it closed
to us? Well, it had one
serious drawback. Our
understanding was that in learning
this business, a person either had to pay
for the course or work for nothing in
exchange for the lessons. To
the unemployed individual
that was an insuperable obstacle, for it is generally necessary to be
earning money right from the start.
So we could not regard beauty as a
promising field, inasmuch as it required a certain ability temporarily
to finance oneself.
Then one day a simple
little three line ad caught our eye. It said: "Willing worker will
receive pay
while learning hair dressing."
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the subject of beauty
parlors. Especially the woman
who faces the fact of
forty. Think of all those hours
under the dryer—and
the finger waves—the permanents! No, that was one interview for which we
were well
prepared. But there was some special
preliminary at that.
For we made a quick visit to
our own
three-for-a-dollar beautician and had her
do for us her dead
level best.
The wording of the ad
had seemed rather unusual, and had concluded with an address only—
no telephone
number, no post office box, no newspaper
code, just a city location. It is Elinor Stacy's
story now.
I went one rainy afternoon, looking as slim
and well groomed as ever I could. I
opened a door and found myself in a large room that was very
clean and bare. In it were perhaps fifteen young women
all in white, each working busily
over the hair of another young
woman who sat in a chair in front
of her. Each worker was separated
from the others by small
inside partitions, so that the effect was
one of many little, individual booths. There was
a pleasant woman in charge, and she
came to me at once. I introduced myself, and then she explained:
"I teach everything about the hair. Shampoo,
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"But the ad said that
I would be paid while
learning."
"That is right. If you
will help me keep my
apartment clean and
the shop, and help me get
my meals, I will pay
you and also teach you every
afternoon—all
afternoon." She stopped for a moment.
"But maybe you would not like that. You
are used to better
things? You have had a good job,
haven't you? A
secretary, perhaps?"
I nodded. She was a foreign type, and I think
perhaps well educated. She spoke
fluently but with a slight accent. There was an air of authority about
her, and also of balance and
judgment. She impressed me as
the sort of person that might come to quick conclusions. I liked
her at once, and she must have sensed it.
"I thought so," she
continued. "But the work is
hard. And I cannot pay
much."
"You advertised for a
willing worker," I said. "And that is
exactly what I am. I do not mind hard
work, and I would like to learn your business."
Well, she told me about her business, and much,
much more. She had come from Geneva twenty
years ago and had nothing "but just these two
hands." Now she owned five buildings, and could
live comfortably if she never worked again. "But… |
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I like this business, and so will you," she said. And
she explained that she
could pay me ten dollars a
week, if I "would just be
deciding to come," and we could "work
together like sisters."
It seemed to me that the conviction with which
I had told her I did not mind hard
work had completely won her
to my side—that willingness, added
perhaps to my attitude of courtesy and deference.
We had been very keen to
land something in the
collection field, for that seemed one that ought to
be open to the person with less
business experience. So when we read
an advertisement in the
evening paper that asked for a collector we were interested at
once. The question was partly whether
a woman could qualify, for the little boxed ad did
not specify which sex. The first
thing we had to know was what special qualifications in either a
man or a woman would be the right ones for the
job.
We went to a friend in
the credit section of a
department store, and he gave us a picture of what
would be required.
"To be an A Number One collector," he said,
"first of all you must know how to
get along with people. You must
be friendly but not too talka-… |
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tive. You need a nice
balance between firmness and
the sympathetic manner. If you let the customer
put you off with excuses,
you have a mighty good
chance of losing that
account. On the other hand,
if you are too hard-boiled, you give offense right
and left and keep away trade."
Our interview plan for the collecting job followed
closely the spirit of our letter of application, which in turn
had tried to reflect what the credit
man had told us.
Mrs. Matthews had that interview:
The position was in the
collection department of an installment
house. Ordinarily few women were
employed. But there was one big point in my favor. It was the
fact that the firm was in process of
making some changes in policy, one of which concerned their method of
collecting slow accounts.
It seemed to me that a
woman with the right qualifications might fit into this new picture. And
what gave me
confidence was that I actually felt I
had these qualifications. In the first place I had
always been able to handle people—even difficult
people—and still retain their liking.
In addition I was an amateur
collector of some standing. Ever
since I can remember, in community
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difficult
districts and the hardest cards. And I could
always be counted on to make my
quota.
All of this I knew would
be apt to be so much
twaddle to the hard-boiled credit manager. But it was not
twaddle. Making people part with money
is a peculiar gift. Either you have it or you haven't.
My job then was to
convince the manager that with
a little coaching I could
step from the amateur
into the professional rank. But how could I prove
this to him? A definite
plan came into my mind.
When I entered the credit
manager's office, the
first question shot at me was the one I had been expecting:
"Mrs. Matthews, have you had any practical
experience?"
"Well, I'll tell you what
I have done, Mr. Burke, and then you can see what you think of it." I
told him frankly
about the experience and success I
had had in collecting money. "But, Mr. Burke," I
added, "I realize that I
could hardly expect this alone to make
you decide in my favor."
He said, not unkindly:
"Well, what else have you
to offer? I've talked to
three other applicants this
morning. Suppose you
give me one good reason
why I should select you rather than one of the
others."
Here was the chance to
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"All right, Mr. Burke, I'll try. Would you be
willing to do this? Would you turn
over to me four hard accounts
and let me see what I could do with them? Then you could let the results
decide."
Mr. Burke took me up on
this forthright proposition.
There was a governess
job interview that seemed
to swing to Miss Stacy (the interviewing partner
on the occasion) from a
small incident at the employer's
home. But let her tell about it.
We were talking agreeably enough when the
young seven-year-old son marched
into the room. He ignored me,
made a flip statement to his mother
about something he had been doing and
stalked out.
The mother said: "We must
not mind Timmy. He gets so preoccupied with his own small affairs
that he does not see
anyone."
"I understand little
boys," I answered. "If I
should come here, Timmy
and I will get along
all right. You know,
children that age are all little
rascals, so full of pep and life that they never seem
to tire. Grownups
sometimes forget that they were
once little people
themselves."
That was apparently the
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for it won that job.
Before we close this
chapter, there is one very
important point about interviews that must not be
overlooked. That is the wait. Whether
through necessity or design, or as
some sort of a test, there
not infrequently occurs a good long wait for the
applicant while all his courage runs
out through his toes. And
there is no gainsaying it, that could prove a disastrous hurdle
to surmount. But we learned to handle
it, and here is the way.
So far as we were
concerned, when we walked
into the office at the appointed time, we were as
ready as we knew how to
be. We had an opening
sentence, we had the high
points fixed in our mind,
we were all set to start. And then, perhaps, a young
person might say: "Will
you sit down, please? Mr.
Garle will see you in a
few minutes."
That was the time we had
to take our minds
firmly in hand. We could have done a number of
things. We could have
sat and muttered the opening
sentences to ourselves again and again. Or we
could have gone over the important facts that we wanted to
bring out. In either case, we would have
been preparing ourselves for a nice case of the
jitters by the time we
were ushered in. So we swung our mind
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the
situation at hand. We consciously and deliberately made
ourselves think of something else.
Now, this new subject
had to be something that was a naturally engrossing one. One of us, for
instance,
happened to be very much interested in
cooking and in anything that related to foods. So
she turned one twenty-five minute
wait into making up a brand new way to prepare chile con came.
As she was almost invariably lucky
with her recipes, perhaps
the excellence of her waiting method
was based on the fact that she was
thinking thoughts of success.
The other partner always
tried to conjure up
in her mind any task or job or conversation in which she
had come out with flying colors. It
proved an elixir beyond comparison. For any
thought of a previous victory immediately
stiffened our spines. But perhaps
these methods would not
appeal to you. In that case, why not carry with you one of the
little pocket-sized magazines and pull it out and read it while you
wait? The main point is to handle that wait so that it will not get
you down.
We found, indeed, that
the more we worked for
the interview the more the interview worked for
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